Whelp. I cut them off.
Apr. 26th, 2026 02:29 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
punkymaysnarkAfter stewing on their utter audacity all morning, I decided to unblock them on Discord for one last message. I simply told them I tried to be patient, but they had gotten as bad as my ex-boyfriend. And then I re-blocked.
They got furious, immediately finding my real-life phone number to tell me to, quote, "please never text me again after comparing me to him" with a screenshot of him trying angrily to reply to what I said while blocked. It was pathetic, and when I tell you I smiled. They wanted so damn badly to have the last word, but I simply repeated what I said and ended the conversation. Hey, thanks for giving me your real-life phone number again so I could block that, too. Fucking stew on what I said. Didn't want that to happen? Boo hoo, you shouldn't have spent the past two months testing my boundaries and taking advantage of my patience.
It felt so satisfying. Putting up with that increasingly toxic and creepy behavior for two years, just to finally snap and tell them what I've come to think of them. And leaving them with that kind of sting. Glorious. Go, me.
But it's not all happy feelings, as the adrenaline wears off and I ponder the consequences. Unlike my ex, who was a fuckin' loser in a band of other fuckin' losers, they're a well-liked student. Most of my friends are their friends, too, and we're in all the same clubs. So, if, and probably when, it gets out that I not only cut them off but had the audacity to point out their toxic behavior was similar to Greg's toxic behavior, I could have all different flavors of shit to put up with. Our mutual friend told me they're like this with everyone, which...Bull. SHIT. I have NEVER seen them take ANYONE else into an empty room without surveillance to cuddle. I HIGHLY doubt they started asking any of the other girls in our circle if they ever wanted to kiss. How regularly do the others get subjected to "I feel like you're avoiding me, can we talk?" For fuck's sake, they started calling me "one of the most important people in their life", which, woe betide the next woman to get that title from them, by the way, implies to me that they are not giving this treatment equally.
And I do feel bad for said mutual friend, she's been dealing with her own shit and this is probably gonna be something else on her plate while she already had to deal with the guy's ex-girlfriend not liking me one tooth, but I'm sorry, [redacted], just because you say this is their regular behavior doesn't mean I have to find this comfortable, especially when they start asking questions that pretty strongly imply they want to take it further. In fact, if/when they bring it up to you, I hope you remember that I was already confiding in you that I didn't think the two of us were very compatible as friends.
They got furious, immediately finding my real-life phone number to tell me to, quote, "please never text me again after comparing me to him" with a screenshot of him trying angrily to reply to what I said while blocked. It was pathetic, and when I tell you I smiled. They wanted so damn badly to have the last word, but I simply repeated what I said and ended the conversation. Hey, thanks for giving me your real-life phone number again so I could block that, too. Fucking stew on what I said. Didn't want that to happen? Boo hoo, you shouldn't have spent the past two months testing my boundaries and taking advantage of my patience.
It felt so satisfying. Putting up with that increasingly toxic and creepy behavior for two years, just to finally snap and tell them what I've come to think of them. And leaving them with that kind of sting. Glorious. Go, me.
But it's not all happy feelings, as the adrenaline wears off and I ponder the consequences. Unlike my ex, who was a fuckin' loser in a band of other fuckin' losers, they're a well-liked student. Most of my friends are their friends, too, and we're in all the same clubs. So, if, and probably when, it gets out that I not only cut them off but had the audacity to point out their toxic behavior was similar to Greg's toxic behavior, I could have all different flavors of shit to put up with. Our mutual friend told me they're like this with everyone, which...Bull. SHIT. I have NEVER seen them take ANYONE else into an empty room without surveillance to cuddle. I HIGHLY doubt they started asking any of the other girls in our circle if they ever wanted to kiss. How regularly do the others get subjected to "I feel like you're avoiding me, can we talk?" For fuck's sake, they started calling me "one of the most important people in their life", which, woe betide the next woman to get that title from them, by the way, implies to me that they are not giving this treatment equally.
And I do feel bad for said mutual friend, she's been dealing with her own shit and this is probably gonna be something else on her plate while she already had to deal with the guy's ex-girlfriend not liking me one tooth, but I'm sorry, [redacted], just because you say this is their regular behavior doesn't mean I have to find this comfortable, especially when they start asking questions that pretty strongly imply they want to take it further. In fact, if/when they bring it up to you, I hope you remember that I was already confiding in you that I didn't think the two of us were very compatible as friends.
